February 2012
22 posts
Help me help you!!!
Followers!!!
How is everyone?! I miss all of you so very much. I haven’t been getting inboxes or any inspiration to write a sweeping article. Please please PLEASE pass my link along to your friends and school LGBTQ clubs and whatnot. I want to be of help, but I need some help, too. Let me know if you have any topics you’d like me to write about or if you have any submissions!
Best,
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WatchMUST BE WATCHED. SO GOOD.
lovinginneverland asked: the time we were in the same bunk at camp& i knew you because of this blog. this is beyond inspirational for anyone that reads it. gives insight to people that are naive and hope for those who need it. youre amazing carly<3
Anonymous asked: are you seeing anyone?
Anonymous asked: Hey Carly. I just wanted to let you know that what you do for members of the LGBTQ community by running a blog like this and giving advice is a really great thing. I used to really dislike you for reasons I now realize are trivial and immature but regardless of anything else, you're a fantastic person. I hope everything's going well for you! Even though this is anonymous, it is sincere....
Anonymous asked: you give me hope, and you're full of love. So I was wondering, what you would do if you actually got to meet a hateful, ignorant, and just plain evil member of the wbc?
WINNING!!! →
Peace out, Prop 8!!!
Reblog this if you AREN'T homophobic.
Just want to see how many of my followers actually reblog this.
IT’S OKAY
TO BE GAY
I WON’T MIND
IF YOU LIKE YOUR KIND
IT’S OKAY
TO BE GAY
I’D STILL LOVE YOU
AND OTHERS WILL TOO
people are fine by me.
everyone should reblog this
for the gifs XD
this is so….. .__.’ *reblogs*
January 2012
15 posts
Anonymous asked: I'm a 14 year old female who tends to date guys only, but I think I'm in love with a girl... Thoughts?
These Are a Few of My Favorite Things.
I had a crummy day today, followers. Nothing at all to do with having my typical queer teenager issues, but just standard “no matter what sexual identity you identify with” teenage angst. But, things turned around because of two TOTALLY awesome things: gays and music. What a perfect combination.
When I turned 18, my conductor said that I was old enough to play in the LGBT symphonic band that he...
getmeoffthecloud asked: Just feel like leaving something here since your blog has always made me smile. The truth is, it's the visit to Tufts, the seminar we attended, the last day at Tufts when we skipped class together and this blog of you inspired me to write my last response to Tufts. More specifically, I wrote about me getting to the realization that being a trans and a Catholic at the same time is totally...
olympiaslover asked: Carly, I am so so so proud of you. Missing you so much. I will be in New York soon with a lady. Expect to see me.
PDA: Possible Definition of Abandonment.
This is a story from a few months ago. I really thought that I was going to move passed what happened after a few months, but it has really tugged at my heartstrings.
In the beginning of November, my girlfriend (let’s call her…Alex for anonymity’s sake) and I stopped at my best friend’s house on the way to the subway before the three of us headed downtown. The two of us waited in my friend’s room...
FACT: I love being a lesbian
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Oh, Followersssssssss
We Hate The Hate has taken on a TOTALLY new look!
There’s a button to “Like” We Hate The Hate on facebook, in addition to a button to “Follow” @wehatethehate on Twitter!
I would love to get some feedback on the new layout!
Thanks for always being super deeduper followers!!! Keep fighting the good fight and hate the hate!
All the best,
Car
P.s. Any requests...
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In an attempt to revitalize WHTH...
We Hate The Hate has succumb to the temptation of twitter! Follow WHTH’s update tweets @wehatethehate
Keep fighting the good fight and BE YOU!
Cheers,
Car
parasitic-love-deactivated20120 asked: every time i go on your blog i become inspired. i am so honored to be friends with someone as wise and amazing as you. I LOVE YOU <3
Anonymous asked: i'm really sorry if i made you feel this way. i was angry and i couldn't understand your reasoning. please, don't feel so terrible. it's not your fault.
December 2011
16 posts
Dear Loyal Followers of We Hate The Hate,
Merry Christmas to my Christian friends, Happy Chanukah to my fellow mensches, Happy Kwanza to my observing African-American buddies. And to anyone not observing/celebrating any religious holidays, happy celebration of whatever you want to celebrate and kudos to you for doing your thang!
The only thing I’d like for the holidays is for everyone to just do whatever makes them happy. YOU,...
asecretweapon-deactivated201201 asked: I really love your blog <3 It's amazing :) I've seen the advice and pointers you've given, and it's inspiring. Happy Holidays!
hegsianslip asked: I've been in countless experiences like yours with the word "ghetto." I'm so thankful that people confronted me when things I've said were hurtful. To the anon who slammed you, please know how hard it is to admit when we're wrong and try to fix it. Sometimes we only have limited words for hard conversations, and we need to start where we are if we're going to...
Anonymous asked: Hey Carly, I love your blog. You're a very inspirational and strong person. Thank you for being open about yourself, I think it makes kids your age a little braver.
A Letter of Fear.
To whom this may concern:
I did not mean to offend anyone with any comment I have made. I wanted to own up to a mistake I made and show that I’m a person too and make plenty of mistakes. Owning up to a mistake is hard and I did it with the intent of learning and helping my fellow peers learn.
I just came out by saying that I am guilty of having used a word that has changed its definition over...
Anonymous asked: okay, so you only thought that the word 'ghetto' was associated with the jewish ghettos and didn't know it had a negative connotation. but how could you say that there was no negative connotation to the word when you knew what a jewish ghetto was? people were imprisoned and murdered in ghettos during the holocaust. how is that not a negative thing? it shouldn't be a word...
I Am Guilty.
Fellow followers, Just letting you know that everyone makes mistakes, myself included. I was ignorant, in the sense that I was literally unaware, in regards to saying the word “ghetto.” A group of us were talking about a school that has been known to be sketchy and dangerous and I, not knowing that it was associated with a negative connotation, used the word “ghetto” to...
OH MY GOODNESS WHERE HAVE I BEEN???
Happy holidays to all of my loyal followers!
I am so so SO sorry that I have completely dropped off the face of the earth, my friends. I was drowning in college apps (thankfully, there’s no more college stress :D), end of term work (still need to have A’s), and now I’m on a family vacation. I will NOT go MIA like this again. If I ever do, everyone can maul my askbox and nag me...
Anonymous asked: just wanted to say you are doing a great thing! I found your blog through the Brown site, and it is very inspirational. I am straight and definitely not "homophobic" or anything but a lot of friends and classmates are- i wish they would understand what they are putting others through. Anyway this blog has given me (and it looks like a lot of other people) hope. Thanks
Anonymous asked: I really like girls but never had a girlfriend or boyfriend. I am really nice and cute and kind to everyone. Why me?
Anonymous asked: hi, i go to this camp every summer and there is this girl there. we used to flirt a lot but then last year things got really awkward and i dont know if i did something wrong, i think i still like her and would like to take it to the next step, i know what you are gonna say that time is my BFF but i just want something to happen, i guess i have been waiting already a few years but now i am nervous...
Anonymous asked: i dont really have a question but i dnt have a tumblr so i just wanted to say thanks for all that you do and have done it takes alot of guts to do it. and im happily out and have been a lesbian for five years. you inspire me so again thank you:)
Anonymous asked: hi, i have a question. so i like this girl, and i have for a while. she's definitely gay, but the thing is she's kind of still in that asexual phase (if that makes any sense, also not putting down asexuals in ANY way) that we were all in when we were younger. she hasn't come out yet or anything, but she flirts with me ALL the time. even people who don't really know her have...